When you find yourself unhappy with being single, it can be a problem. It is especially a problem when you are the one that does not want you. Some may turn to love spells to bring their desired one to them. Many bookstores have whole sections devoted to metaphysical practices to help make that special someone your own. It can be easy to believe that all it takes is the recitation of some words, a few crystals, incenses, oils, and herbs and someone you desire will be fully yours for all of eternity. Still, before you embrace this plan wholeheartedly and rush out to buy all the supplies, there are some things to keep in mind.

The first thing to consider is what has kept the two of you apart. If the intended is already taken, likes being single, or in a happy relationship or maybe just not interested, it can be tough to accept, but a future may just not be in the cards for the two of you. Things become more complicated because of what we have been taught about love through movies, novels, and shows that create dramatic and fictional themes about star crossed lovers who face a cruel world keeping them apart. While these are good for entertainment, they create an unrealistic expectation in the lonesome viewers mind and heart. At other times, we are taught love must be painful and we must be devoted to one person for a lifetime, regardless of whether they are reciprocating the feelings. We are taught love is to be selfless and we are only to give, expecting nothing in return. Some are taught love is forever, despite the nature of it and if we truly love someone, we must be with them as long as we are alive. All these myths do is create disappointment and pain, leaving us focused on all the wrong things.

We need to realize that is someone wants to be in a relationship, they will make it happen. There is no mystical force to keep lovers apart. This means there is no need for magic to unlock what is meant to be. True love is not a struggle to bring it to fruition and while devotion is admirable, if directed to the wrong person, it is pointless. So, while we should not give up on love in and of itself, we do need to stop seeking validation from those who are not interested in a relationship. You do not need to stop searching for love and you can use some magic, but no love spells needed.

If you have a deep love for someone who does not share the feeling and you are struggling to move on, your local metaphysical shop can be of help. A simple, and cost efficient, candle or oil known as “forget him” or “forget her” can help you let go of the feelings. No special work or words are necessary unless you just want to say something. The candle has a prayer written on it and is designed to be burned for a specific amount of time. If it is left to burn until it is gone, do so in a safe space. It still shows effectiveness if burned for a time, extinguished, and relit as needed. For the oil, add a dab to yourself as you would perfume and tell yourself to move on, heart intact, forgetting the individual. This can be done as needed to help change yourself, not someone else.

Visualization exercises can also break the heartstrings that bind you together. Close your eyes and visualize a single strand that connects your heart to the other person. Feel the strength of the connection and honor the love, then take a deep breath and snap the strand with your hand. Cast it away as you walk away, visualizing it dissolving into nothing. This can also be done by visualizing roots that you dig up and lay aside. This will leave you feeling whole. Some may prefer asking for divine help through a guide. One deity open to helping in this way is the Norse goddess Freyja. Gather some form of amber and offer it to her by casting it in a field, burying it, or burning it. Ask Freyja for help and signs to point you to true love, then have faith it will be done. One other form of magic is to reach out to those more lonely than yourself. Give your time to someone who is alone to open yourself up to love. Whether you become a Big Brother or Big Sister, adopt an animal, or join a group to support a cause this is magic in itself.

Above all, commit to love magic for yourself. Understand you are deserving of love and capable of finding it. If someone is not interested in you, it is their loss and there are others who will appreciate you. Get out and enjoy life and before long, love will find you.

Love spells are effective when you convert your sincere affection into magical power.  Love is a team sport that requires both parties’ freewill and hard work.  In order to produce a successful outcome, it is important that you ensure the following points below:

• Have pure love for your significant other
• Be grateful for their love
• Be willing to spice up your relationship as need
• Frequently show how much you care about them
• Be thoughtful
• Be respectful and supportive
• Frequently help your partner with daily chores
• Do you best in all facets of the relationship
• Put effort into looking good for you both
• Treasure your relationship and never forget how fragile it can be at times

You risk breaking a love spell if you act in any of the following ways:

• Selfish and extremely stubborn
• Act unfaithfully or jealous
• Frequently blame them for your issues and missteps
• Constantly criticize and/or humiliate them
• Give up on working on your self-growth
• Ghost them

When habitually act in toxic patterns, even the most powerful spell with come undone in under a month!  Your intended my still be attracted to you and respond favorably to your kind words or deeds, but this won’t be true love.  Even if you try to fix your wrongs, it will be too late and the relationship will continue to erode until one day you part for good.

Therefore, it is essential people only use love spells when they can accept full responsibility for their actions, their loved ones, and fight for a lasting love.  Sure, some greedy false psychic can claim they can help you fall in love with anyone without putting in hard work.  But this is similar to undertaking a spiritual kidnapping.  You may “have” this person in your life, but it is by force rather than true interest.  How long do you think this person would stay with you if giving back the power of freewill?  Inevitably if they don’t want to be a part of your life, they will find a way to leave it!  The Higher Powers in the spiritual realm are taking notice of your selfishness and will find a way to punish you accordingly, most likely resulting in you losing everything you hold dear and winding up alone and miserable.

It is important to always keep in mind that any black magic spell will fade much faster than any white magic ritual.  Moreover, white magic is considered safe, as supposed to black magic which can endanger both target and practitioner.  Also, those conducting black magic won’t warn their clients about the rituals’ risks for fear of losing money or power.  If you are ensuring your love spell involves white magic, it is helpful to renew your spell every few years and to use protective charms like amulets and talismans to ensure the health of the relationship for decades to come.  You can have love in your life with your true love as long as pure love resides in both your hearts, as this enduring love is the driving presence in any love spell.

Love spells are one of the most powerful magical interventions and they are highly popular. It is important that you know the mental and physical symptoms of a love spell in case you happen to be under one. Most people under a love spell will feel a strong desire to see someone they had previously walked away from or were never close to and feel a great need to go search for this person, see nd talk to them, and touch or hold onto that person after they were located. These may be signs of a love spell, but they are also the feelings someone truly in love has with a natural love. This is in part because a love spell creates the perfect conditions for love to blossom with the only difference being the level of “need” to be with the person. This is known as red magic.

Black magic also has love spells, but those who resort to black magic for love do so without creating a permanent bond. The love bond will expire within a few weeks, sometimes a couple of months, after being cast. The overall process is quite different. Black magic love spells impose a bond on the target and “obliges” them to have certain passions, feelings, and motives with a high price. The biggest issue is that black magic produces negativity for the one ordering it and this can have dire consequences. The stakes are high with black magic.

When a love spell has been cast, you may not notice any changes, but others will notice and comment on how different you are compared to before. Below, we have shared several symptoms that may indicate you are being affected by a love spell.

• Desire to be Together – When you are truly in love you want to be with that person, but when under the influence of a love spell, you will have a deep need and will not be calm until that need to be near is met. You may feel totally devastated if you are not close to the person.
• Pessimism – A man under a love spell will have a mood change overnight. He may normally be a relaxed. laid back type of person who is suddenly nervous, restless, and ending up exhausted. Everything will irritate him and he will want limited communication with everyone until the “love” comes back into his life.
• Depression – Those under a love spell will feel that life is meaningless when not with the other person. They may start to see life as boring and tasteless, mundane.
• Work Problems – Someone who is normally highly creative and loves learning, work, and discovery may suddenly lose that passion as a sign. This can lead to being fired or experiencing a decrease in salary because they simply cannot concentrate.
• Fatigue – People under a spell tend to feel tired and fatigued without reason. This is due to not being able to sleep unless the one the spell is for is with them. When they do sleep, there may be nightmares or a feeling of being watched or haunted.
• Health Issues – Health issues, like addictions, may arise. Those feeling stressed often turn to drugs or alcohol and being under a spell is stressful.
• Controlled – The person under a spell is being controlled by the one ordering the spell. The spell holder’s word becomes priority and law.

Nothing can be said with full certainty in this life, so these signs are not definitive, but point in a specific direction. Love is not supposed to be frustrating but a spell causes it to be. True love will bring balance and happiness through real connection.

Questions to Ask Yourself

If you think you may be under a love spell, ask yourself the following.

• Do I feel uncomfortable or weird lately?
• Have I suddenly started thinking about a past romantic relationship?
• Am I more fatigued than normal?
• Do I feel like I should reconnect with an ex?
• Am I having odd, unexplainable dreams more nights than not?
• Is there one recurring person in these dreams/nightmares?
• Am I more anxious than normal?
• Am I thinking about an ex all the time?
• Am I suddenly meeting with someone more often, even if unintentionally?
• Am I suddenly feeling sexually attracted to those I was not attracted to before?
• Am I in general discomfort with muscles aches without reason?

If you can answer yes to the majority of these questions, then you may be under a love spell. This should never be ignored. Love spells are meant to lure a lover. Powerful love spells can activate coercive action in the receiver, though the intention is not to damage. Still, an unnatural bond can be created. Be careful and work with a professional if you need a love spell or feel you are under one.

Love spells are the art of drawing more love into your life. Love spells act to enhance romantic feelings that are already present in an existing relationship. They can’t force somebody to start loving you or to fall in love with you.

If you already share mutual feelings of affection with somebody, a love spell can help intensify the love energy between you, acting as a magnetic force to draw you closer. Simple love spells alert the universe that your heart is definitely open.

To be clear: Love spells don’t intend to trick somebody into falling in love with you. Instead, they ask the universe for help in bringing you closer to somebody that you’ve been happy to receive, and that somebody was happy to come to you. Spells generally consist of three easy steps: create an intention, employ a ritual to invoke the intention, and convert the intention into action.

Fridays are ruled by Venus, the goddess of love, so Fridays are optimal for casting love spells. To enhance your spell’s potency, cast it during the waxing crescent phase of the moon when the creative lunar energy will increase positivity in your life. Here are two uncomplicated love spells you can try out, using common elements you probably already have around.

1. The Rose Love Spell

For the rose spell, you’ll need a rose and a source of moving water. If you’re lucky enough to be near a stream, a river, or an ocean, you’re all set to conduct the spell outdoors. If not, or if the weather does not permit outdoor activities, your kitchen sink or bathtub faucet will work just as well.

To conduct the spell, visualize your romantic partner. Pluck the rose petals and toss them into the water so the water brings the petals back toward you. As you toss the petals, say, “As water moves the rose back to me, bring forth the love that’s meant to be.” Continue visualizing your partner as you repeat the ritual and incantation.

2. The Ribbon Love Spell

For the ribbon spell, you’ll need a red or pink ribbon and two items that are obviously a pair, such as a set of bookends, salt and pepper shakers, or your favorite shoes.

To conduct the spell, designate one item to represent you, and the other to represent your intended partner. Set the items a distance apart. Drape the ribbon around them and tie a knot or bow, leaving the items a distance apart.

Each morning, untie the knot or bow, move the items a bit closer together, and retie the knot or bow. Repeat this morning ritual each day until the items touch each other. Retie the knot or bow and leave them together for seven days. By the end of that week, you will have drawn closer together, because you’ve made your request clear, and the universe is certainly listening!

Sorcerers often receive questions about magic spells to make someone fall in love. This is typically referring to someone who is married, but they are still in love with them. People are ashamed to talk about their affair because it is wrong and unfair to their spouse. Trained spellcasters are there as counselors for their clients. They make sure whatever is said stays within the lab forever. This means you should never be afraid to share the entire truth with a spellcaster. As a trained magical professional, all personal data remains confidential. Many people will ask if a love triangle can be untangled and if there is a right way to do so. This is important because most people will choose what is right over what makes them happy. So, they think having a love affair means betrayal of the spouse. They truly believe that falling in love with someone after they are married should be avoided because it is unacceptable. Only your heart knows the real answer. If the voice in your head is louder than the heart, then consider consulting a sorcerer.

Most likely you will receive a tarot reading that can answer questions like:

• What will the children do if I leave?
• How will my friends handle the news?
• What will my parents think?
• Will my spouse find out I’m cheating?
• What happens if my spouse does find out?
• How long will the love between myself and my lover last?
• Will a spell help my spouse take me back if I leave?

The tarot will enlighten you about your future. It can tell you what will happen based on your choices and make the final decision easier.

Some people do not want a choice, instead leaving things as they are at this moment. This is why they contact sorcerers to help them keep the love triangle a secret. So many are afraid that their friends, family, or colleagues will find out about the affair, but most are terrified of their spouses finding out. Still, the right love spell to make someone miss you and make your spouse love-blind. The spouse will not see what is obvious to others and believe every word you say. In other words, it will be easy to keep them in the dark. If he does start to suspect, then show him some love and his attentions will be drawn away from the unfaithfulness. Some ask the sorcerer for help to stay one-on-one with the lover and make sure a spouse does not become a bother. This is difficult because it requires several spells to cover the following:

• The spouse leaving
• Seeing your lover without anyone knowing
• Keeping a spouse on the backburner
• Make your lover fall out of love with you so your spouse can be in love with you
• Starting over with your spouse
• Keeping a spouse from jealousy and accusations
• Hiding the truth

This will be hard on you because there are dozens of rules and guidelines to follow based on the spell casted. If these are broken, the magic is broken as well. It can be easy to make a mistake. Spells can do most anything except make someone love you forever, so choose carefully.