One great thing about spell work is that you can use candles. People love candles and they love the idea of fire magic. This is a way that you can take your energy and you can focus on what you want, and you can send it to the universe. When you need to get rid of something, fire magic can also burn those things away for you.

Candles are something that you can use when you do spells on their own, but you can also do things to make the spell stronger.

Dressing a Candle

Dressing a candle when you want to do spells means that you put something on the candle. Many people will use herbs or oils and they will rub it on the candle while they focus on the intentions that they are sending to the universe. This makes the spell much more powerful.

How to Dress a Candle when Doing a Spell

Here are some tips to help you dress a candle when doing a spell:

Cleansing

You have to start by cleansing your candle. You can rub it with salt, do smudging or you can use a sound bowl. Do whatever your intuition tells you to cleanse your candle.

Oil

Rub oil on your candle while you are focusing on what you want in your life.

Herbs

Once you put oil on your candle you can choose what you want to do next. If you want to add herbs, you can roll the candle in the herbs of your choices. Make sure that you continue to focus on your intentions.

Herbs and Oils for Candle Dressing

There are different oils you can use such as coconut or sunflower oil to dress your candle. This is a way that the herbs can stick to the candle.

If you want to use a different oil, you can use essential oils to help with your spell. You can buy small amounts of the oils that you want to use, and you can find them almost anywhere.

The same thing is for herbs, when you are wanting to dress a candle, you don’t need to buy a big amount of herbs but just stick with a small amount of the kind you want to use.

Pleasure Spells

You can use orange candles and these oils and herbs:

• Sage
• Lavender
• Rose petals
• Flower petals
• Ginger
• Sandalwood
• Calendula

Abundance Spells

You can use a green, gold, or brown candle and these oils and herbs:

• Ginger
• Cinnamon
• Basil
• Frankincense

Creativity Spells

You can use orange, blue, purple, or yellow candles and these oils and herbs:

• Tangerine
• Angelica
• Verbena
• Bay Leaves
• Peppermint

Intuition Spells

You can use a silver, blue or purple candle and these oils and herbs:

• Sage
• Myrrh
• Rose petals
• Mugwort
• Chamomile

Protection Spells

You can use a blue, brown, or black candle and these oils and herbs:

• Juniper
• Comfrey
• Mugwort
• Cypress
• Clove
• Mullen

Releasing Spells

You can use a pink, orange or red candle and these oils and herbs:

• Ylang-ylang
• Cardamon
• Fennel
• Yarrow
• Oregano
• Jasmine

There are many spells in the world that were written down on papyrus paper and then were later copied for reference. Some of the spells were written in order to win women over. In these spells, you will see that there are three parts.

The first part is to get the woman to love you and the second part is to bury different items at the door of the woman’s house.

Some will have to offer things like wild plants or a bat and when they are buried at the door of the woman you love, the spell will work fast.

With the wild plant, the spell is talking about the aspartos, which is a Greek plant. This is a plant that has sticky blackness and would fit in the black color when that color is needed.

Other ingredients can include foam that comes from a horse and a bat.

The last part of the spell is to do some repetitive incantations that will bring magic. Demons can be called on for their powers, but the problem is that they are evil.

You can call on the different names and offer them things such as amulets and let them build thrones around you.

These things can bring love and make you feel mad towards who you want to be with. Never let the lady drink or eat or sit until she becomes like the spell and is madly in love with you.

It is questioned who this spell might be made for, and which women were the target of the spell. When you see that it says, “heartfelt madness,” do you want someone to love you like that?

This spell is not written for a single person, but it can be used for almost anyone. The spell doesn’t put names in, but it leaves a space where you can add your own name.

You can submit the name of someone that you want to fall in love with you and the NN can be a place that the person is written within the spell.

Rather the spell was effective, no one is really sure, but it is used to attract attention of someone that you want to love you back.

The papyrus paper will have symbols on the paper and will have different lines. It is from Egypt and dated in the 6^th or 7^th century, but it is not really known exactly when.

The language that it is written in is Coptic and it is collected in the Yale University library.

Conclusion

Love spells have been written for centuries and they are still part of everyday magic spells. Always be careful what kind of love spell that you put on someone and what your intentions are.

Just like the past, love spells are there to help you to make someone fall in love with you, but you always need to make sure that it is positive so that nothing evil comes back to you.

If you are concerned about doing your own newer love spells, find someone that is good at spellcasting and call on them to help you to cast your spells.

Love spells can be exciting as long as they are done with a pure heart and good intentions.

When you find yourself unhappy with being single, it can be a problem. It is especially a problem when you are the one that does not want you. Some may turn to love spells to bring their desired one to them. Many bookstores have whole sections devoted to metaphysical practices to help make that special someone your own. It can be easy to believe that all it takes is the recitation of some words, a few crystals, incenses, oils, and herbs and someone you desire will be fully yours for all of eternity. Still, before you embrace this plan wholeheartedly and rush out to buy all the supplies, there are some things to keep in mind.

The first thing to consider is what has kept the two of you apart. If the intended is already taken, likes being single, or in a happy relationship or maybe just not interested, it can be tough to accept, but a future may just not be in the cards for the two of you. Things become more complicated because of what we have been taught about love through movies, novels, and shows that create dramatic and fictional themes about star crossed lovers who face a cruel world keeping them apart. While these are good for entertainment, they create an unrealistic expectation in the lonesome viewers mind and heart. At other times, we are taught love must be painful and we must be devoted to one person for a lifetime, regardless of whether they are reciprocating the feelings. We are taught love is to be selfless and we are only to give, expecting nothing in return. Some are taught love is forever, despite the nature of it and if we truly love someone, we must be with them as long as we are alive. All these myths do is create disappointment and pain, leaving us focused on all the wrong things.

We need to realize that is someone wants to be in a relationship, they will make it happen. There is no mystical force to keep lovers apart. This means there is no need for magic to unlock what is meant to be. True love is not a struggle to bring it to fruition and while devotion is admirable, if directed to the wrong person, it is pointless. So, while we should not give up on love in and of itself, we do need to stop seeking validation from those who are not interested in a relationship. You do not need to stop searching for love and you can use some magic, but no love spells needed.

If you have a deep love for someone who does not share the feeling and you are struggling to move on, your local metaphysical shop can be of help. A simple, and cost efficient, candle or oil known as “forget him” or “forget her” can help you let go of the feelings. No special work or words are necessary unless you just want to say something. The candle has a prayer written on it and is designed to be burned for a specific amount of time. If it is left to burn until it is gone, do so in a safe space. It still shows effectiveness if burned for a time, extinguished, and relit as needed. For the oil, add a dab to yourself as you would perfume and tell yourself to move on, heart intact, forgetting the individual. This can be done as needed to help change yourself, not someone else.

Visualization exercises can also break the heartstrings that bind you together. Close your eyes and visualize a single strand that connects your heart to the other person. Feel the strength of the connection and honor the love, then take a deep breath and snap the strand with your hand. Cast it away as you walk away, visualizing it dissolving into nothing. This can also be done by visualizing roots that you dig up and lay aside. This will leave you feeling whole. Some may prefer asking for divine help through a guide. One deity open to helping in this way is the Norse goddess Freyja. Gather some form of amber and offer it to her by casting it in a field, burying it, or burning it. Ask Freyja for help and signs to point you to true love, then have faith it will be done. One other form of magic is to reach out to those more lonely than yourself. Give your time to someone who is alone to open yourself up to love. Whether you become a Big Brother or Big Sister, adopt an animal, or join a group to support a cause this is magic in itself.

Above all, commit to love magic for yourself. Understand you are deserving of love and capable of finding it. If someone is not interested in you, it is their loss and there are others who will appreciate you. Get out and enjoy life and before long, love will find you.

Love spells are effective when you convert your sincere affection into magical power.  Love is a team sport that requires both parties’ freewill and hard work.  In order to produce a successful outcome, it is important that you ensure the following points below:

• Have pure love for your significant other
• Be grateful for their love
• Be willing to spice up your relationship as need
• Frequently show how much you care about them
• Be thoughtful
• Be respectful and supportive
• Frequently help your partner with daily chores
• Do you best in all facets of the relationship
• Put effort into looking good for you both
• Treasure your relationship and never forget how fragile it can be at times

You risk breaking a love spell if you act in any of the following ways:

• Selfish and extremely stubborn
• Act unfaithfully or jealous
• Frequently blame them for your issues and missteps
• Constantly criticize and/or humiliate them
• Give up on working on your self-growth
• Ghost them

When habitually act in toxic patterns, even the most powerful spell with come undone in under a month!  Your intended my still be attracted to you and respond favorably to your kind words or deeds, but this won’t be true love.  Even if you try to fix your wrongs, it will be too late and the relationship will continue to erode until one day you part for good.

Therefore, it is essential people only use love spells when they can accept full responsibility for their actions, their loved ones, and fight for a lasting love.  Sure, some greedy false psychic can claim they can help you fall in love with anyone without putting in hard work.  But this is similar to undertaking a spiritual kidnapping.  You may “have” this person in your life, but it is by force rather than true interest.  How long do you think this person would stay with you if giving back the power of freewill?  Inevitably if they don’t want to be a part of your life, they will find a way to leave it!  The Higher Powers in the spiritual realm are taking notice of your selfishness and will find a way to punish you accordingly, most likely resulting in you losing everything you hold dear and winding up alone and miserable.

It is important to always keep in mind that any black magic spell will fade much faster than any white magic ritual.  Moreover, white magic is considered safe, as supposed to black magic which can endanger both target and practitioner.  Also, those conducting black magic won’t warn their clients about the rituals’ risks for fear of losing money or power.  If you are ensuring your love spell involves white magic, it is helpful to renew your spell every few years and to use protective charms like amulets and talismans to ensure the health of the relationship for decades to come.  You can have love in your life with your true love as long as pure love resides in both your hearts, as this enduring love is the driving presence in any love spell.