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How to Find Your Soul Mate Using White Magic

Our quest to find a soulmate isn’t simply about finding a partner for marriage, it’s a journey to find true love that lasts beyond this world and into the next. Many people believe they have achieved this until they encounter a particularly unpleasant break-up and start their search afresh. Love shouldn’t rely on this kind of vicious cycle until you finally find ‘the one’. Fortunately, love spells exist to avoid us encountering such heartbreak and to help speed up the process of finding our life partner.

Our love spell uses your mind power combined with natural forces to bring positivity into your life and the lives of those around you. Magic isn’t just about spells and rituals, it employs meditation and visual exercises, plus elements such as candles, herbs, and gems to create a flow of energy, drawing you towards your motive.

Components of the spell:

  • Pencil
  • Parchment paper
  • Toothpick
  • Wooden matches
  • A red and a white candle thick enough to engrave

Casting the spell:

  • First, engrave your name into the white candle.
  • Next, engrave the three most desirable features you want from your soulmate.
  • Light up the white candle with one of your wooden matches.
  • Light up the red candle with another of your wooden matches.
  • Focus on the candles as they are ablaze and visualize an encounter with your ideal soulmate. Do this for around half an hour.
  • Using your pencil, draw three hearts on your parchment paper.
  • Drop wax from the white candle onto the hearts whilst you continue to visualize your soulmate and focus on what you wish to bring to the relationship. Once you have done this, blow out the candle.
  • Repeat the process with the red candle, this time focusing on what you would like to be given in return in the relationship. Again, blow out the candle when you’ve finished.

Make sure to repeat this process for a week, drawing your hearts onto the same piece of parchment paper each time. On the final session, allow the candles to burn out on their own.

Lock the parchment paper out of sight once you are finished with the ritual.

How to Summon Your Soul Mate

We all eventually reach the point in life where we think we’re ready to settle down with our one true love, or as we’ve come to call them, our ‘soulmate’. The seeking of a soulmate is an incredibly natural desire, it’s the way our human hearts were designed. If you’re at a point in life where you think you’re ready to find your soulmate, it is possible to cast a love spell to help find true love.

Many questions have arisen over the witchy ethics of casting a love spell. The main thing you’ll need to be aware of is that you must cast the spell yourself. A wise witch will also advise you not to act on impulse, encouraging you to put plenty of thought into the act before going ahead with the spell.

You need to have a strong awareness of what you truly want. In some cases, the individual looking to cast a love spell is simply seeking a lover, which is very different to a soulmate. As with any magic, you need to have a good understanding of your end goal before you think about summoning your current desires.

It may also be that the only reason you desire a soulmate is to fill an empty void in your life. Again, if this is the case, we advise you to take a step back and rethink whether a love spell is the right course of action for you. It is advisable that only fulfilled individuals are ready to find their soulmate, because they have a good understanding of who they truly are, what they want from a companion, and if they are at a time in their life when they’re ready to meet their soulmate.

If you’re one of the empty seekers we’re referring to, you need to postpone your quest and take some time to prepare yourself for such an act. Begin your journey of self discovery so you have a clear mind and a focussed idea about what you need from a partner. Live your life with purpose, ensuring everything you do works to move you past your emptiness. You could get involved in worthy causes, be creative, socialize with new people, discover new hobbies, listen to music, etc.

Pay attention to the things in life that may have previously gone unnoticed. In becoming thoughtful of the energy around you, you’ll become enlightened. Keeping a journal is a good tactic – it will allow you to document any noteworthy observations throughout your day, so you can look back and focus on all the joyful moments in life.

Becoming more in touch with nature is another important aspect on your journey to self discovery – study natural elements, such as rocks, flowers, and earth. Become aware of their textures and how they feel against your skin. Respect your honour and your place among such elements and be grateful that you have been graced with a healthy life. In doing this, you’ll become more accepting of yourself, and as a result, more accepting of the fact you deserve a soulmate.

The time you spend on your journey of self discovery should span across at least five lunar cycles. If you carry out all of the above methods for this period of time, the emptiness you previously felt should have faded away and been replaced with a feeling of fullness and gratitude, which you’ll want to share with another.

Though witches all have their own thoughts on spells and summoning, we strongly advise against envisioning a particular individual when casting a love spell. Attempting to perform magic to influence a specific person is a form of manipulation and frowned upon. What you’re seeking is a willing companion, someone who is on the same page as you and has the same desires as you, as opposed to a puppet who is only going acting on the influence of the spell.

As a soulmate is the individual you’ll be spending eternity with, do not wish for superficial characteristics from them. You may think good looks and a good body are the most important features on a person, and perhaps physical attraction is important to some degree, but there are other attributes you should take into consideration. Put together a list of desirables that go beyond appearance, keeping in mind that you’ll want to reach someone you can actually hold regular conversations with over the course of your future together.

How you act next is up to you. There’s no one size fits all when it comes to love spells, there are many possibilities for you to pursue involving crystals, candles, flowers, herbs… the list goes on and it’s all about finding the method that works best for you. Use your voice, body, heart, and mind for the crucial spellwork. What you’re aiming for is to be heard, and to be understood, so your request for a soulmate will reach the divine powers and be granted.

After casting the spell, the finding of your soulmate will not happen overnight. As with any spell, you will need to be patient in order to allow the energy to build. Work with the moon and cast your spell at the beginning of the lunar cycle, so you can allow the the power of your spell to escalate as the lunar cycle continues. Proclaim your love spell daily, ideally when you rise in the morning and again at night when you’re ready to fall into a slumber.

Find your own personal serene space, and clear it of any negative energy. Ensure this is a space associate with only good feelings and memories. Fill it with elements that will help you to feel empowered such as candles, incense, natural salts, etc. Make it your sacred place where you can allow your magic to build in power.

Work on your posture, raising your hands and moving your fingers regularly in order to direct your energy. Make sure your feet are planted firmly on the ground, which will elevate the energy of the spell.

Vocalize the following incantation: ‘I am here in this world, so find me. We are worthy of each other’s love, and we are perfect for one another, so we will find each other.

We have complete love to offer to one another. So wherever you are in this world, I would like to welcome you share my energy and enter my life.

Present yourself to me, and I will share with you my whole world.

Want Your Ex Back? Try This Spell

Did your relationship end prematurely? Well, good news: there is a White Magic spell that can help to return your ex-partner back to you. This spell, which operates in conjunction with Wicca, acknowledges and utilizes the presence of divinity that surrounds us at all times. Don’t worry; divinity cannot be manipulated into harming other people, so this spell is completely safe for you and your lover.

To make this spell work, you will be combining natural elements with the power of actions and thoughts. Only through this will your ex come back to you. The way it works is by raising an awareness within your ex of their feelings for you, reversing the repression of thoughts and feelings that sometimes happens in life. Only if the feelings are there, however, will it remind your ex about them and cause you to experience true happiness once again.

Ingredients

  • Tea lights x 14
  • Baking soda x 7 tsp
  • Wooden cooking spoon x1
  • Water x 3 quarts
  • Cooking pot x 1
  • Chamomile x 7 tsp
  • Photo of your ex-partner x1

Casting the spell

The spell should be performed in the bathroom. Collect water in the sink (one that has a plug). It is better to perform the spell when your ex-partner is asleep, because this will make it more effective overall. As you need to give the spell your complete attention, be sure to make sure there are no distractions such as music or the TV; you should also light 7 candles in the kitchen and 7 in the bathroom. Then, fasten the photograph to the sink in the bathroom.

Boil the water in the kitchen, then add 7 teaspoons chamomile; let the chamomile boil in the water for 7 minutes. Once you have done this, take the pot off the heat and spend 30 minutes stirring the chamomile water. Through this therapeutic activity, you should concentrate all your energy on your partner, mentally tuning into them if you can. It helps to meditate in order to build up the energy you need for this task.

Once you have done this, return to the bathroom and pour the boiled chamomile water into the sink. Then, add the baking soda.

Hold your hands over the water with your palms down (facing towards the water). Observe the photograph and allow it to enter your mind. Once you have done this, close your eyes; allow the energy to build up in your solar plexus. Begin to wish that your partner should return to you and repeat these wishes over and over again. Shortly, you should enter a trance; let it last as long as it needs to. When you feel accomplished, unplug the sink. This causes your energy to be released and to travel to your ex-partner. Don’t allow the energy in your solar plexus to drop before all the water has gone; keep your eyes closed, and keep your desire going.

Using clean water, rinse the sink while visualizing your ex-partner.

 

 

Do love spells really work? What is Psychic Spellcasting, and how can it fix my relationship?

love spells

You may be wondering, “Do love spells really work?”, and the answer is simple: Yes, they do! However, it also depends on the circumstances of the relationship. Love spells cannot simply be cast to make someone fall in-love with you, if that person has never loved you before. For example, you can’t make someone you’ve never even met or spoken to fall in-love with you. The very thought of it would be highly unrealistic, and why would you?

Love should be based on something that’s real and tangible, not fraught with manipulation, obsession, control and disillusioned fantasy. Love spells can work for some people in certain situations, but not for everybody, or for every need and desire.

So, when do you know when a love spell is right for you? When you and your partner have separated, due to unfortunate circumstances (such as: third party interferences, fears of commitment, negative influences, long distances, family disputes, etc.) and you want to reunite back with them. This is an ideal situation when a love spell can truly help a couple in need.

We sometimes can build up so much negative energy around us, whether it stems from past issues in our lives, or even if it’s being forced upon from other negative people that could be harming your relationship. If it’s not dealt with appropriately, it can over accumulate until a volcano effect occurs, leaving you and your partner to deal with the aftermath.

A spiritual love spell that uses the natural bonds and connections a couple shares can bring forth very positive changes, such as: increased communication, fidelity, increased passion and desire, better connection and understanding, and a more peaceful and happy environment in your relationship.

What is Psychic Spell Casting?

A lot of people that try and search for a spell caster to work with are often confused between love psychics and spell casters. Psychics and spell casters are two different and distinct abilities in the spiritual and metaphysical world. In other words, someone can be a psychic but not necessarily a spell caster and vice versa.

Spell casting is the ability to do rituals, prayers or deep meditations to try and invoke positive change on an energetic and focused level. Spell casters can help people find solutions to their everyday problems using this method, especially when it comes to love and relationships.

Psychics are people who have extra sensory perception and can know and feel things about people, places and things that are not normally known or felt by the average person. These two different abilities/gifts can work in unison to create the optimal environment and energy for casting spells. Being a psychic spell caster is no easy feat and not everyone has the capability.

How long do love spells take to work?

This is a question that many people that are interested in love spells, or have already had a love spell cast, want to know. Of course, everyone is looking for fast love spell results, but sometimes this is not possible.

Time frames to see results from a love spell will ALWAYS vary depending on someone’s unique situation, difficulty of the spell being cast, and how talented/gifted a spell caster may be. Result times can be as varied from 7 days to 12 months or even longer. Therefore, there is no real set time frame because spell casting is more of an ART FORM, and NOT AN EXACT SCIENCE!

Your faith & positive energy also plays a VERY POWERFUL ROLE in how quickly and easily you may see results. If you’re not a faithful or positive-type person, results will take very long or may not show at all. Spell work requires good vibes and intentions in order to manifest the best results possible. You have to BELIEVE in order to RECEIVE!

Love Spells for Relationship Problems

There are many different types of love spells that are out there, for all kinds of situations and relationships. The type of love spells that I offer, however, work with a couple’s natural connections and romantic bonds. My love spells will not force things to happen or work against a person’s free will. I do not condone or perform any type of love spells that are forceful or dark in nature.Those who may work with forceful energies and the dark arts such as: black magick, voodoo, witchcraft, satanic rituals, santeria, etc. to try and gain what they want, may receive some kind of results, but at what cost? I’ve seen many people who have used those types of methods, or have hired those types of practitioners, only to have things get worse between them and their lover and lose their partner forever!No one should desire to be in a relationship with someone by forcing them to be with you, because that is not true love! Real love is wanting the best for that other person, even if that includes letting them go. Sometimes in relationships, we’re only meant to journey so far with someone and take lessons from that experience, to make us more wise and understanding of what it is that we truly want and need in a partner and in our lives. In some cases, the best thing for you happens to be the complete opposite of what you thought you wanted in the first place. It’s in these kinds of situations when a love spell would NOT be the best idea!

Genuine love is based upon free will and is a wonderful gift from the Divine Spirit. Love cannot be falsified, fabricated or pressured upon. It has to grow naturally and spiritually, in order for true healing to take place.

Love Spells in the Right Circumstances

However, there are those couples who have all the right elements in place for a love spell to be successful. If two people still have a strong connection and feelings of love is still present in both parties, a love spell can bring forth positive energy and healing to a relationship that has gone sour, due to many different types of issues, such as: miscommunication, infidelity, third party interference/influence, intimacy/trust issues, commitment issues, sex problems, financial problems, family problems, etc., or any type of negative energy or circumstances that is causing a rift in the relationship.

With my natural love spells, I can promote healing and energy balancing in the relationship, in a NON-FORCEFUL manner. In other words, it’s like going to the doctor when you are ill. It’s not against anyone’s free will to want to get better when they’re sick. It’s only natural to want to feel good again and be healthy. This is what my natural love spell methods can do for you and your relationship. They can bring back the health and vitality of your love and union!

With using non-forceful love spells, I am not using any type of negative magick or witchcraft. I am using the natural connections that a couple already has present and using that connection to heal, grow and strengthen the relationship on a purely spiritual and energetic level. With using non-forceful methods, this assures lasting and effective results!

Safest Way In Casting Love Spell

       Love spells is a subject that has been written in literature and arts for many centuries whose origin can be traced to the Greco-Roman world and the Middle Ages in Europe.

The performance of these spells involves the use of spoken or unspoken words which are used to access their powers.

Love spells are still very much present today and here are the 5 simple steps to follow to cast an effective love spell:

Step 1 – Protect yourself.

Safeguard yourself prior to casting a spell. Your mental state and the energy around you will influence the spell you cast.

If you are using black magic to cast a spell intended to exploit someone, be mindful that whatever you ask for will eventually happen to you, too.

It’s also important to be protected in order to shield yourself from any negative entities that may interfere with your spell casting process. There are three common approaches to protect yourself.

First Approach: Circle of protection

Locate a secluded area where you can draw a circle on the floor to protect yourself. You can also draw a pentagram in the center of the floor and surround the circle with sea salt, crystals or herbs (such as myrtle and sage) to mark the pentagram’s corners.

For your next step, you’ll need to let positive and pure energy enter your circle. There are several ways to accomplish this.

Sit down in the circle’s center. Calmly inhale and exhale deeply a few times until you feel relaxed. Visualize the middle of your head (your crown chakra) susceptible to white light from the divine.

Imagine this light going into your crown chakra gently, traveling down your arms, spine, stomach and legs, and leaving your body through your feet.

You can also use this energy to keep yourself grounded by visualizing that the white light is connecting your feet to the ground with roots.

Once you’ve channeled an internal light, you can imagine it beating around you like a shield or protective layer. Say the following:

“I ask that the God and Goddess bless this circle so that I may be free and protected within this space so mote it be”.

To close the circle, imagine the white light now going surrounding it and closing it. Thank the spirits or angels for their presence and declare the circle closed.”

You can then cast your love spell.

Second Approach: Tube of light

This is an energetic barrel approximately 9’ wide that seals your aura in order to protect you from negative energy.

It is linked to the violet flame, and as such, will help convert bad energy into good. To begin, sit in a relaxed position and repeat the following phrases three times:

Beloved I AM Presence bright,
Round me seal your tube of light
From Ascended Master flame
Called forth now in God’s own name.
Let it keep my temple free
From all discord sent to me.
I AM calling forth violet fire
To blaze and transmute all desire,
Keeping on in Freedom’s name
Till I AM one with the violet flame.

Begin casting your love spell, as you are now protected.

Third Approach: Salt bath

Sit in a tub filled with water and a handful of sea salt. While sitting in the bath, mentally repeat the following:

“The water in which I bathe will now dissolve all negative energies around me “.

To complete the process, shower the salt off your body and visualize the water purging away any negative energy.

Step 2 – Locate a love spell best for you.

Finding the right love spell among the many to choose from can seem daunting. You’ll need to take into consideration how much time you have available and the materials you will need.

Also determine if the spell is to be cast by you or through a professional spell-caster. You can pick a black or white magic spell based on your intentions.

Step 3 – Set your goals and establish what you want.

The most important thing about casting a love spell is to first be clear about what you want. You’ll need to release that goal and energy while the spell is in process. Be careful what you wish for, because you’re going to get it.

Step 4 – Follow the directions.

It is critical to follow all the directions to the letter when casting a spell. Many spells are crafted to respect ancient traditions.

If that particular spell is only to be used during a specific moon phase or time-frame, adhere to those circumstances. Failure to do so will affect the outcome.

Step 5 – Let go.

The final step is also the most important one. After the spell has been cast, you’ll have to trust that things are in motion.

Don’t try to think about it or worry about it in any way. Your body and mentality are energy receptors and therefore your mind should be clear, positive and trusting.

It will be hard not to think about the spell you’ve cast, but you must bear in mind that you get what you wish for.

Negative thoughts will only bring a negative outcome. Therefore, once you cast your love spell, simply let go.

Prosperity Spells

Prosperity Spells

Love and Career SpellsVery interested about magic but have no idea where to start? Fear not! You don’t have to be born with psychic gifts or talents in order to conjure magic into your life. Believe it or not, you have just as much access to the powers that be as even the most seasoned of witches. No matter if you believe in the universe, in the divine, or in yourself, magic is meant for you. It surrounds you at all times, waiting for you to harness it. Since 2018 is definitely the year of taking charge and manifesting what you want.

You’ve probably been working with magic all along and never even realized it. It’s as simple as making a meaningful wish while you blow the candles out on your birthday cake or even feeling a little sexier when the full moon is out. Now, that’s magic at the most basic level, so imagine how much fuller your life can become when you define your intentions and cast a real spell. It’s a lot less difficult than it sounds! You don’t have to travel to the far reaches of the Earth to buy dragon’s eggs, ghost tears, or vampire teeth in order to feel like a maven of the mystic. These five spells are beyond easy to cast and require readily attainable ingredients. They might be simple but definitely don’t underestimate them. Each one produces powerful results!

Prosperity & Money Spell

Are the bills piling up? Do you wish your boss would finally give you the raise you deserve? Do you want to live a more financially fruitful life? A prosperity spell might be just the thing you need. Here’s what you need:

1 Green candle

Peppermint incense

Cinnamon powder

Paper money, coin money, or green paper to resemble money

The spell: Sit on the floor and arrange your paper money and coins in a clockwise circle around you. Inside the circle, light the incense and green candle. Take a moment to imagine that all your money troubles no longer exist. Picture yourself having all the money you desire. Meditate on your monetary goals. When you’re fully immersed in your financial dream coming true, take some of the cinnamon powder and lightly sprinkle it over the money encircling you. As you do this, chant:

“I have all the money I could ever need.

I am prosperous, indeed.”

Once you’ve finished, move counterclockwise around the circle and collect the money into a bag or container. Allow the incense and candle to burn all the way through. You may keep some of this money as a lucky charm or spend it as you wish. This spell is best cast on a Thursday morning, during the waxing moon or the full moon.

Is It Safe To Cast A Love Spell?

      Angela came rushing to me and asked for ways to help bring love into her life. She’s very eager to be with someone and we had a pretty revealing conversation, in which she admitted she had cast a spell on a coworker who she was in love with but who was married. He had flirted with her and encouraged her but seemed to have no intention of leaving his wife.

“I’m ashamed of it now,” she said. “I wish I could take it back. I haven’t had a date since I did that—and this was over three years ago! And he and I used to at least be good friends, and since I did the spell, it’s like he just became so frustrated with me all the time, and now we can barely work together.”

This is a classic situation. Angela found a recipe for a love spell in a book. She carefully set up the ritual and visualized her co-worker. Unfortunately, when she was thinking of him, she was also powerfully feeling the frustration of the unrequited love. So this energy became part of the energetic statement of the spell, and because she bound her energy to his, she now is having trouble attracting another person. For his part, when I looked at the agreement, it was clear he enjoyed having a lovely young lady be infatuated with him and was fine with the attention. On that level, he did accept the energy—although unconsciously—of the spell by encouraging her attention. You can see how this spell backfired!

I’ve had more than one client ruefully admit to this kind of situation to me, and I’ll confess there was a time when I was young and practicing some Wiccan traditions, and I contemplated the Love Spell chapter of my spell book. Spells are very powerful invocations and have karmic repercussions. I never would cast a spell today, at least not on anyone, and I advise you to do the same.

What Is A Spell?

Popular imagery illustrates spells as being cast by either ugly hags or diabolical, busty ladies shrouded in black and usually with a wand, crystal ball, or ornate ancient manuscript close by. Spells are the provenance of witches, in both literature and history, and usually involve another person that the spell is being cast upon. Love spells are, of course, the most popular. In truth, anyone can cast a spell without being a witch, and many witches don’t use spells at all.

A spell is simply an intention made stronger by ritual and belief. If you have a spell book—either ancient or modern—the spells will usually require objects from the natural world, different stones or plants perhaps, and a written component that details the action of the spell. Spells are most powerful when performed during certain phases of the moon or on specific holidays such as Solstices or Equinoxes. Any New Age bookshop or website will have spell books where you can see an example of how to create and cast them.

The karmic implication of a spell is this: if you are trying to interfere with the free will of another by making them fall in love with you, and they on some level accept the spell (either through fear or actual compliance), then you now have a negative attachment to that soul lifetime after lifetime—and that will impact both of you in ways you can’t even know.

Do Love Spells Work?

Yes and no. A spell that you cast on another requires that they have buy-in and creates long-lasting complications and negative results you can’t foresee. A spell that you cast for yourself for love is much more powerful.

I told Cynthia that she was empowered to take back the original spell. We created a ritual together where she could do this and release herself from this man. Then I recommended a crystal healing for her, to attract love, and we created a spell for her to do on her birthday to bring more love into her life. She was so relieved, and after seeing how powerful spells could be, was convinced that these new versions would work.

I’m happy to report that in just three weeks after her rituals, Cynthia was dating two men, and had “miraculously” patched up her friendship with the co-worker. She no longer flirted with him, and he was friendly without being inappropriate. This was the fastest turnaround I’d ever seen, and I congratulated her on the power of her belief and intention.

Love spells, like any kind of intention, can work for you if you create them for yourself and never cast them “on” someone. Ritual helps build in the power. A psychic can help you create rituals for yourself or undo inappropriate magic that you may have wrought.

How Long Will It Take For Love Spell To Work?

       Are you eager to know when the love spell would work? the first thing that takes place is your love spell is cast, but what happens throughout a love spell’s journey? The second your love spells witch starts casting your love spell it becomes alive and once your love spell is completed your witch seals your love spell before releasing it into the Universe for your wish to be granted as soon as possible – at which point it instantly starts working on your heartache, there is no delay before it begins its work.

Love spells are psychic energy, psychic itself has no time, and therefore instant, it doesn’t take a quarter of a second, it’s instant, hence once your love spell has been cast, your love spell will immediately start working on your love troubles but it doesn’t grant results instantly, it cannot because your love problem isn’t psychic, your problem is ruled by time – your love problem has a past, present and future.

Your love spell repairs the main problems first, you might not be able to see these changes at first, and assume your love spell has failed, it hasn’t, it’s working on your ex’s negativity, it’s working on ways for you and your ex to meet each other again, it’s blocking people and situations from your future from happening if they might delay your reuniting and such things are invisible. Sometimes a visual result appears while your love spell is working mainly on the invisible elements – you might receive a positive text, that’s because your love spell wants to give you hope a let you know it is working, but usually a love problem is deep and complex and an ex might be reacting very negatively, so your love spell will work 100% on the invisible problems first. It varies dramatically for case to case how much work a love spell has on its plate. If your ex is very moody and not wanting to speak to you let alone be with you, until your love spell has changed their mood you cannot expect to receive a text, call or sign of hope.

I do Love Readings if you find waiting impossible, they aren’t essential, because no sign of visual results 99.9% of the time means your love spell is busy with invisible tasks i.e. your love spell is working, major visual results of course do tend to be your full results. A Love Readings can look carefully at what is going on if you feel you need to know more.

A love spell always work as fast as it can, you can be sure a witch cannot cause one person’s love spell to work faster than another person’s. Extra love spells can help, simply because they add further power to your situation, but predicting exactly when results will appear is impossible, and all most love spells witches can do is tell you the average time for results. Love spells keep working until results appear, that’s because it is obvious to a love spell if it has more work to do – it cannot miss anything out, it psychically knows everything.

I think most witches will tell you, once your love spell has been cast results may be granted any moment afterwards, usually within a month, but it could take longer, maybe another month or so, but equally your results might be with you within a few days. Love spells work as fast as they can.

The Magic Of A Candle Love Spell

       Love spells are commonly use for some who are very eager to win the person they wanted to be with and it is also considered as many people’s first introduction to practicing magic. Some of us are pining for the one who got away, others yearn for new love, and many of us suffer unrequited love. Desperate times usually call for desperate measures, and the irrational game of love naturally leads many of us to explore the intuitive world of magic for tools to help us navigate an emotionally brutal landscape. 

 

The following is a classic love spell that works quite effectively for both men and women. 

First, obtain a small bride & groom candle—the kind you put on a wedding cake.

Second, if you can, retrieve a single thorn from a rose bush. If you can’t, a tooth pick or needle will suffice, though it’s not ideal as the rose thorn.

Time your spell according to your need. For those trying to reunite with a past lover or patch things up with a quarreling partner, schedule your ceremony for the Full Moon—a perfect time for seeking closure, reunion and completion in your relationship matters. For those trying to attract new love or conjure a new relationship, schedule your working for the New Moon instead, since that’s a better time for casting new intentions. And everyone should avoid working any love magic on the last few days of the Moon cycle before the New Moon, since that’s a time for extreme banishing rituals and exorcisms, so save those nights for spells to banish exes and unwanted admirers.

For your ceremony, create a sacred space using incense, sage, prayer, chanting, bells, meditation, etc. Then, using your rose thorn, carve the bride & groom candle with the words, “All my love come to me,” or simply, “Love come to me.” Carve the phrase three times on the candle if possible. If the candle is too small, just once is fine.

Optionally, you can dress the candle in a combination of rose oil, honey, vetiver, jasmine, lilac and lavender. Additionally, if you are casting the spell with a particular person in mind that you are hoping to attract, then you should also acquire a picture and some keepsakes of that person—especially items they have physically touched.

But a word of warning to those who are trying to use love magic to seduce a particular person: the most you will be able to accomplish is encouraging your target to give you all the love they have for you, as much or as little as that may be. They will not simply blindly fall in love with you. Magically forcing someone who does not love you to fall in love with you is a violation of that person’s free will, which means it will have karmic consequences for you. If you wouldn’t violate someone’s free will with your physical actions—such as holding someone against their will—then you shouldn’t feel free to violate someone’s free will with your magical actions by casting spells to manipulate them.

Ideally, you should use this spell to attract the right partner for you—regardless of who that may be. If you are not specific about who you are targeting, and you leave that up to the universe, then you will greatly increase the chances of your spell working instantly. If you target your spell at a particular person, your will is bumping up against theirs, fundamentally putting you in conflict. While it’s certainly possible to influence someone this way—just as it’s possible to physically restrain someone if you truly intended it—that doesn’t mean you should do it. Using the spell to summon a healthy relationship rather than manipulate an unrequited love will produce much more effective and harmonious results.

When you’re done carving and maybe dressing the candle, set it upon your altar. If you don’t have an altar, just set it somewhere at about eye level where you can gaze at it while meditating comfortably. Light the candle and gaze upon it until it melts completely. As you observe the changing candle, visualize experiencing the outcome you desire. Imagine your love coming to you and how amazing that makes you feel. Visualize with all the senses by imagining how your lover feels, smells, tastes, and indulge in the sumptuousness of the visualization.

After the candle is done burning, wrap up the remains in a simple container like a small box, pouch or bundle of cloth. Place it on your altar or in a safe place where it won’t be disturbed. Leave it there indefinitely. If love comes to you and you change your mind or the relationship sours and you no longer want that person to love you, then take the remains of the spell and ritually dispose of it in your preferred method. Options for disposing are to burn the remains of the melted candle in a ceremonial fire, bury them at a crossroads, or toss them into a moving body of water.