We all eventually reach the point in life where we think we’re ready to settle down with our one true love, or as we’ve come to call them, our ‘soulmate’. The seeking of a soulmate is an incredibly natural desire, it’s the way our human hearts were designed. If you’re at a point in life where you think you’re ready to find your soulmate, it is possible to cast a love spell to help find true love.
Many questions have arisen over the witchy ethics of casting a love spell. The main thing you’ll need to be aware of is that you must cast the spell yourself. A wise witch will also advise you not to act on impulse, encouraging you to put plenty of thought into the act before going ahead with the spell.
You need to have a strong awareness of what you truly want. In some cases, the individual looking to cast a love spell is simply seeking a lover, which is very different to a soulmate. As with any magic, you need to have a good understanding of your end goal before you think about summoning your current desires.
It may also be that the only reason you desire a soulmate is to fill an empty void in your life. Again, if this is the case, we advise you to take a step back and rethink whether a love spell is the right course of action for you. It is advisable that only fulfilled individuals are ready to find their soulmate, because they have a good understanding of who they truly are, what they want from a companion, and if they are at a time in their life when they’re ready to meet their soulmate.
If you’re one of the empty seekers we’re referring to, you need to postpone your quest and take some time to prepare yourself for such an act. Begin your journey of self discovery so you have a clear mind and a focussed idea about what you need from a partner. Live your life with purpose, ensuring everything you do works to move you past your emptiness. You could get involved in worthy causes, be creative, socialize with new people, discover new hobbies, listen to music, etc.
Pay attention to the things in life that may have previously gone unnoticed. In becoming thoughtful of the energy around you, you’ll become enlightened. Keeping a journal is a good tactic – it will allow you to document any noteworthy observations throughout your day, so you can look back and focus on all the joyful moments in life.
Becoming more in touch with nature is another important aspect on your journey to self discovery – study natural elements, such as rocks, flowers, and earth. Become aware of their textures and how they feel against your skin. Respect your honour and your place among such elements and be grateful that you have been graced with a healthy life. In doing this, you’ll become more accepting of yourself, and as a result, more accepting of the fact you deserve a soulmate.
The time you spend on your journey of self discovery should span across at least five lunar cycles. If you carry out all of the above methods for this period of time, the emptiness you previously felt should have faded away and been replaced with a feeling of fullness and gratitude, which you’ll want to share with another.
Though witches all have their own thoughts on spells and summoning, we strongly advise against envisioning a particular individual when casting a love spell. Attempting to perform magic to influence a specific person is a form of manipulation and frowned upon. What you’re seeking is a willing companion, someone who is on the same page as you and has the same desires as you, as opposed to a puppet who is only going acting on the influence of the spell.
As a soulmate is the individual you’ll be spending eternity with, do not wish for superficial characteristics from them. You may think good looks and a good body are the most important features on a person, and perhaps physical attraction is important to some degree, but there are other attributes you should take into consideration. Put together a list of desirables that go beyond appearance, keeping in mind that you’ll want to reach someone you can actually hold regular conversations with over the course of your future together.
How you act next is up to you. There’s no one size fits all when it comes to love spells, there are many possibilities for you to pursue involving crystals, candles, flowers, herbs… the list goes on and it’s all about finding the method that works best for you. Use your voice, body, heart, and mind for the crucial spellwork. What you’re aiming for is to be heard, and to be understood, so your request for a soulmate will reach the divine powers and be granted.
After casting the spell, the finding of your soulmate will not happen overnight. As with any spell, you will need to be patient in order to allow the energy to build. Work with the moon and cast your spell at the beginning of the lunar cycle, so you can allow the the power of your spell to escalate as the lunar cycle continues. Proclaim your love spell daily, ideally when you rise in the morning and again at night when you’re ready to fall into a slumber.
Find your own personal serene space, and clear it of any negative energy. Ensure this is a space associate with only good feelings and memories. Fill it with elements that will help you to feel empowered such as candles, incense, natural salts, etc. Make it your sacred place where you can allow your magic to build in power.
Work on your posture, raising your hands and moving your fingers regularly in order to direct your energy. Make sure your feet are planted firmly on the ground, which will elevate the energy of the spell.
Vocalize the following incantation: ‘I am here in this world, so find me. We are worthy of each other’s love, and we are perfect for one another, so we will find each other.
We have complete love to offer to one another. So wherever you are in this world, I would like to welcome you share my energy and enter my life.
Present yourself to me, and I will share with you my whole world.