Being in love is amazing but it can also be heartbreaking and hard. You can find patterns in your dating that happen over and over again, and this can be choosing poor partners or finding partners that are emotionally unavailable. Chances are if this happens to you, you might have a bad love spell on yourself.
People might often tell you just to move on and get over it and that you will find someone that loves you and treats you right. But have you ever felt that no matter what you tell yourself that your heart will not listen? Do you ever feel that you have behaviors that you cannot control?
If you have a bad love spell on you, this could be a result of childhood problems that you have had. It could also be old wounds that keep showing up. When you try to heal, and you keep dating the wrong person, something inside of you has to heal so that you change your behavior and change the way you react to certain people. You might even have to end a few relationships along the way.
Having a bad love spell can mean that you need to learn to get over things that you are afraid of or you need to learn to be in control of certain emotions. You might realize that you are changing, and you are becoming more compassionate but if you are overly angry then you need to figure this out and learn to become stronger and meet good people.
Anger can show up and can be a boundary that you need to set inside of yourself. If your old pattern is repeating anger, you have to learn to find out what you need and what you are searching for so that you can learn to feel better and learn to face the truth in your life.
No matter what kind for behavior that you are repeating over and over again, you have to learn what is causing that behavior and learn to meet your own needs. You have to get rid of old patterns and find out how you can communicate what you need and allow others to help you. You have to be responsible enough to understand the difference of your needs and the lines that you let people cross. If you are in a position to wait, you can see what your partner is going to do but if they are not meeting your needs, then you need to break up and not go back to them.
Being honest with who you are is the most important thing. You have to find power in yourself and you have to learn how to do things better and how to set boundaries both for yourself and for those around you.
Noe one is going to always do things the way that you want them to so this is where you step in and you learn to tell people what you want. You learn to create your own magic by setting boundaries and letting people come into your life but on your own level.
It is your responsibility to ask people what their thoughts are and then to tell them what you want and what you need and to make them meet it or to walk away. The secret to getting rid of a bad love spell that is on your life is to ask and to change and to know that even though no one is obligated to you to treat you a certain way, you are obligated to yourself to force people to treat you right and to treat you with love and respect that you deserve.