You might have abandoned the thought of putting an enchantment spell on your crush to make him go gaga for you. Be that as it may, imagine a scenario in which you utilized a love spell in reverse – and worked some magic on yourself.
Here are a couple of spells you can put on yourself to take control of your life and open your heart to cherish.
“Live confidently, beyond anxiety”
The best things in life (and love) require that you take risks. Sometimes you’re so afraid to take chances that you miss out on beautiful opportunities.
Courage isn’t living without fear, but living despite fear. So don’t waste your time trying to live without fear – instead, put a spell on yourself to live in spite of fear.
When you feel yourself afraid to make a move, transform your fear into energy. Take one small, bold step after another and you’ll soon be living an adventurous life that is bound to bring love to your heart.
“See others through the eyes of my heart”
If you’re focused on looking for your perfect mate, you may not even realize what you’re overlooking. This spell reminds you that love does not always appear where we expect it to.
By seeing others with the eyes of your heart, you’ll be forced to let go of the way you usually judge others. Things that were once your focus — appearance, money, race, age, religion, occupation – will begin to drop away. You’ll notice people you once considered off-limits, and to your surprise, may even realize you’re attracted to them. Opening your eyes is one step closer to opening your heart.
“Love myself as I want others to love me”
In your search for love, you often overlook the one person who can provide you with a never-ending supply of it: yourself. You spend so much time trying to attract and keep a mate that you forget that love is a force that begins within yourself.
Love requires a great deal of understanding, so it’s impossible to allow someone else to love you if you don’t know how to love yourself. Be kinder to yourself. Care for your physical and emotional needs. Relax. Only after you’ve learned to love yourself can you teach someone else how to best love you.
“Let love enter as it exits”
At the end of the day, the best way to get love is to give love. If you want to open your heart to receiving love, put a spell on yourself to first open your heart to giving love. Let love flow, not just to your romantic crushes, but to everyone around you – family, friends and strangers.
Find ways to be more kind and giving in all aspects of life. If you have a difference of opinion, give the other person the benefit of the doubt. If someone hurts you, let them know and forgive them. Strive to bring more love to those around you and you’ll find that more love comes to you.
Opening your heart to give love as a means to receive love is a timeless principle. It promotes a cycle of positive interactions and mutual respect that can enhance both personal and communal bonds.
The concept of redirecting the focus of love spells towards self-improvement is quite intriguing. It suggests a proactive approach to personal growth that could lead to more fulfilling relationships.
Seeing others through the ‘eyes of my heart’ is a compelling idea. It challenges long-held biases and encourages a more empathetic approach to interactions, which can be beneficial in various aspects of life beyond romance.
The emphasis on self-love as a prerequisite for attracting love from others resonates with many psychological theories. It underscores the importance of self-care and emotional well-being in establishing healthy relationships.
The notion of transforming fear into energy aligns with certain cognitive-behavioral strategies. It provides a practical framework for overcoming anxiety and taking actionable steps towards personal goals.